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Does your phone make you anxious? QueenB.Divine shares a funny, honest look at old texts, phone boundaries, digital clutter, and putting your phone down.

Grade Nine had new lockers, new friends and all those expectations. But high school was work. It was tough, and parts of it were traumatic for me. Follow me through the grades, and you’ll understand more of that. There was excitement and kindness in that period, and there were things I still had to get through. A new school didn’t mean life suddenly became easy. What I carry from that year is the importance of looking for myself. Listening for myself. Giving my own experienc

There’s a distinction here. Borrowing with an agreement is different from stealing, and accepting help does not make your achievements worth less. I needed help as a child. I deserved it. What I was searching for as an adult was the confidence that comes from learning how to generate something myself. How do you start again when you’re afraid of losing what little you have?

Before you settle in, give yourself a little time for this one. “Grade Seven: I Ran Away From Home, but I Took My Money Mindset With Me” is a personal story about survival, unexpected kindness and learning to see my own worth. It’s the kind of read you might want to sit with—not rush through between notifications. So grab your coffee, find a comfortable spot and give yourself permission to take a pause whenever you need one. Your reading style Estimated time Fast reader 10–12

What being dumped, childhood trauma, emotional abandonment, and learning about cryptocurrency taught me about self-worth, money, and knowing when to walk away. Notice this. Have you ever been dumped so badly that you started questioning whether you were worth keeping in the first place? I'm not just talking about somebody breaking up with you, blocking your number, or deciding you're no longer worth their precious time. I'm talking about being dumped

A market doesn't need your permission to move. And staring at a chart won't magically make it recover. That's why I keep coming back to self-love and self-care. Not because positive thinking guarantees profits. It doesn't. And not because every difficult period ends with some spectacular comeback. Life doesn't offer guaranteed returns either. But taking care of yourself can help you approach uncertainty with a clearer mind. When I look back at that little girl in Grade Five

You don't have to compete with a machine to prove you're intelligent. You don't have to pretend you know everything. And you certainly don't have to feel less than because technology is moving faster than you expected. You're still here. You're still learning. And your experience still matters. You are the original AI: Authentic Intelligence.

How to Be Yourself, Find Your Originality, Stop Comparing Yourself to Others, and Remember Why You Matter — By QueenB.Divine NOTICE THIS… Have you noticed how little originality seems to be left in the world? Especially on television. Good Lord, I turned on the TV the other day and realized we're still making sequels to movies I watched when I was young. Toy Story 5? Really? I remember going to the movie theatre in Toronto, sitting there enjoying the original Toy Story and th

Notice this: sometimes we say things every single day and don't really think about what the hell we're saying. Welcome to my mind. The other day my husband and I went out looking for a mat for the front door. Very exciting stuff, I know. This is married life sometimes. Not every adventure involves a beach, a passport and a sunset. Sometimes you're standing in a store debating what people should wipe their damn shoes on. Now, I don't really like shopping. I don't know what it

My paper is my past. And if you've ever tried to erase something from a piece of paper, you already know where I'm going with this. You can erase the words, sure, but hold that paper up to the light and there it is—the mark, the indentation, the little dirty smudge from where you rubbed the eraser back and forth trying to make something disappear. It never really goes back to what it was. Neither do we. And maybe we're not supposed to. Hey, how are you doing? I'm sitting here

Notice this. Did you know that what you see is not always what is true? I think that matters more now than it ever has. We are living in a time of visual everything—pictures, videos, headlines, social media, advertising, AI, filters, clips and endless information moving in front of our eyes. We see so much that sometimes we forget seeing something and knowing something are two completely different things. Early mornings are probably my favourite time to think about stuff like

Notice this. Are you ambidextrous? Better yet, are you spiritually ambidextrous? And yes, before we go any further, say spiritually ambidextrous five times fast. I dare you. I was sitting with my morning coffee thinking, like I normally do.

Okay, crypto people, let me ask you something. Who actually loves working for free? Because I sure as hell don't. And if you understand crypto, investing, ownership or digital assets, then maybe you'll understand why I've started looking at social media completely differently. We talk all day about value. Bitcoin has value. Crypto has value. Data has value. Attention has value. A digital asset can have value even though you can't physically hold it in your hand. So why do cre

By QueenB.Divine Notice this. What the hell could government politics, tariffs and a bunch of people arguing about trade possibly have to do with self-love? Apparently, quite a lot. I've been watching this whole tariff trade-war situation, and sometimes it feels like exactly that — a war of words. You do this, we'll do that. You charge us, we'll charge you. Everybody is negotiating, protecting, threatening, reacting and trying to figure out who has leverage. Meanwhile, regula

Understanding the Impact of Scrolling Scrolling, scrolling on my cell phone. When days are hot, when days are cold. Left scroll, right scroll, up and down too. Sometimes I honestly wish the internet had something better for me to do. Have you ever noticed that the more you scroll, the less you can start to feel like you matter? You're looking at the news, people's opinions, arguments, anger, success, disasters, celebrities, politics, AI, wars, money, somebody winning, somebod

Your brain ever feel like a browser with 47 tabs open, three of them playing music, and one of them is definitely judging you? https://youtube.com/shorts/G51WX-Sthl4?feature=share

Being an individual takes work. It means asking yourself questions that nobody else can answer. What's your favorite color? What music makes you feel alive? What food comforts you? What kind of environment makes you feel peaceful?

Build a phone free bedtime routine with soft cues, simple boundaries, and a room to unwind. Let your nervous system settle before sleep, one breath at a time.

Burnout Is What Happens When You Stop Feeding Your Own Life

eing tired can be very… um… dangerous. Not in a dramatic movie-trailer way, but in a very real “I swear I’m fine” way right before your body pulls the emergency brake. QueenB.Divine knows this because she lived it. When you’re tired, you don’t do things well. You