NOTICE THIS... THE SERIES
THE CHAIR YOU KEEP SITTING IN
A Short Digital Thought Book by QueenB.Divine
Notice this: Have you ever sat in an uncomfortable chair and, instead of getting up, just kept adjusting yourself?
You lean a little to the left. Cross your legs. Add a pillow. Shift again. Tell yourself, “It's fine.”
And maybe that's not just something we do with chairs.
Sometimes we do it with relationships, jobs, habits, friendships, expectations and old versions of ourselves.
We keep adjusting ourselves to fit something that stopped fitting us a long damn time ago.
That's the thought behind The Chair You Keep Sitting In, Book Three of QueenB.Divine's NOTICE THIS... $1.99 Series.
This short, raw and relatable read explores the difference between something being genuinely comfortable and something simply being familiar.
Because familiar doesn't always mean safe.
And familiar sure as hell doesn't always mean good for you.
Sometimes it just means you've learned how to sit with the pain.
WHAT'S INSIDE THE PDF?
For $1.99, you'll receive the complete 9-page digital book, including:
• The Chair: A look at the roles, relationships and situations we've learned how to sit in—even after they've stopped fitting who we are.
• Familiar Is Not the Same as Safe: Why knowing exactly how something hurts can sometimes feel easier than stepping into something unknown.
• How Many Pillows Have You Added?: A raw look at all the ways we adjust ourselves to tolerate situations that may actually need to change.
• Getting Up Can Feel Rude: What happens when changing your boundaries, saying no or becoming a different version of yourself makes other people uncomfortable.
• The Empty Chair: Why missing something after leaving it doesn't automatically mean you made the wrong decision.
• The Chair Reality Check: Six personal questions to help you notice where you've become skilled at being uncomfortable.
• Before You Go: A final reflection on knowing the difference between fixing the chair, adding another pillow—and finally getting your ass up.
YOUR $1.99 PURCHASE INCLUDES
Complete 9-page digital book • The Chair Reality Check • 6 reflection questions • Instant PDF download • Phone-friendly reading • Read on your phone, tablet or computer • Yours to keep and revisit
This is a digital product. No physical book will be shipped.
You don't have to hate the chair to leave it.
You don't have to prove it was terrible.
And you don't need everybody else in the room to agree that it's uncomfortable.
Maybe you've simply outgrown the position.
Sometimes self-care is the pillow.
Sometimes self-care is fixing the chair.
And sometimes?
Self-care is getting your ass up.
GET YOUR COPY — $1.99
INSTANT PDF DOWNLOAD • READ IMMEDIATELY • YOURS TO KEEP
A quick read. A real conversation. One ordinary object that might make you notice your life a little differently.
PART OF THE NOTICE THIS... $1.99 SERIES
Three books. Three ordinary things. Three very different conversations.
BOOK ONE — PAPER. PLASTIC. DIGITAL.
The past left marks. The present can be remolded. The future is still being written.
Paper becomes a metaphor for the past, plastic for the present and digital for the future. It's a conversation about the marks life leaves behind, what we can still reshape today and the thoughts and beliefs we're feeding into the person we're becoming.
Your paper may be wrinkled. Your plastic may still be getting molded. And your digital future? You're still writing the prompts.
BOOK TWO — THE RECEIPT
You paid for the lesson. You don't have to keep carrying the receipt.
A raw look at the emotional receipts we keep from relationships, disappointments, mistakes and people who hurt us—and the difference between remembering what happened and continuing to carry proof of it.
Keep the lesson. Lose the receipt.
BOOK THREE — THE CHAIR YOU KEEP SITTING IN
Familiar doesn't always mean comfortable. Sometimes it just means you've learned how to sit with the pain.
A conversation about the places we've become comfortable being uncomfortable—and knowing when it's time to stop adjusting yourself and finally stand up.
Three short reads. Three deeper thoughts. $1.99 each.
No 300-page lectures. No pretending I have all the answers.
Just ordinary things, real life and conversations that might make you stop for a minute and say:
Damn. I never thought about it like that.
NOTICE THIS... THE $1.99 SERIES By QueenB.Divine
The cure is conversation. Self-love and self-care will get you there.
